Monday, January 28, 2008
Life With Sisters
Well my baby sister came first she is so great we are like 2 peas in a pod. My nephew he is so cute and loves me he even has my nose.Well I've spent over a month with my other sister and well to tell you the truth I cant stand her. She is two faced and mean and hateful no matter how nice I am to her she does whatever she can to cause trouble for me and to say meanly things to me. Well a very strong woman once said : Eleanor Roosevelt said "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent!". She is right and I keep thinking about it and telling myself she isn't worth me getting mad over. But after a month of it I'm tired of her saying shit about my weight just cause I cant fit into a size 4. I guess I need to vent get this off my chest and let my girls give me some words of wisdom. She also sense being here hasn't once been up at 6am with her 3 kids to take care of them that's all me. I get up 6am with her kids and feed them then 7am wake up Jr to get him ready for school, 7:30am take Jr to school, 8am feed rest of kids,9am put dishes in sink and start changing diapers/ Pull ups. 10am give mom her breakfast and her pills "she has MS and is in a wheel chair", 11am get Ryan ready for pre-k, 11:30am take Ryan to school,. 12:15pm Make everyone lunch. 1pm put up all dishes in sink and give mom afternoon pills, 2pm take kids outside to play, 3pm go get Jr & Ryan from school,. 4pm start making dinner,. 5pm eat dinner,. 6pm give 9 kiddo bath time,. 7:30pm last drinks,. 8pm bed time for them they don't go right to bed have to fight with them first by 11pm everyone is sleeping and give mom her bedtime pills,. 12am to 3am clean house "living room,dishes,mopping,laundry" 3am go to sleep to start over again at 6am. and she has the nerve to put me down every chance she gets? Tell me who's right here.
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It's hard to say what to do in a situation like this. No matter what you always turn out to be the bad guy. It's not about getting mad. It's about respect, if you don't demand it and let people walk on you, your not going to get it and she's going to continue to do what she is doing and let it lead into other things.
The bad side of it is you know that your father is going to back her up when she goes crying like a baby to him.
So what do you do?
Tell her that she needs to keep her mouth shut and stop making comments, your tired of hearing them and it' s not going to happen anymore. Tell her she needs to get her lazy ass out of bed and take care of her 3 kids because you have 6 and if you wanted 9 right you would fucking have them.
As for the problems this is going to stew up. I know you enough to know that you can tell people to buzz off... So open your mouth girl and let them know your not dealing with it anymore. It will prob start a big fight, but you know what? They will get over it. If they don't so be it at least YOU! Can have sometime to relax to yourself and feel better knowing that someone isn't cutting you down. Let them be mad, you have enough going on without babysitting someone elses kids and hearing that shit.
If she's feeling that much better about herself with you taking care of her kids and cutting you down. I wouldn't really want to get to know someone like that.
Have you talked to her yet? Asking her to stop making the comments she has made? I would start out asking her to please stop and when she gets mad ask her if it makes her feel better knowing that shes hurt you like that. What she recieves from telling you crap you already know and if you didn't know it why she feels the need to repeat herself or even say anything at all to start off with.
Well um I was about to say everything that she just said! hmmm I would sit down talk to her and let her know calmly! ANd then when she cries tell her she is hurting u. Tell her you need help with her kids! Be the AINT NO ON FING WITH ME heather I use to know
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