updating

Well haven't been updating cause I've forgot my password lol. The kids are doing great Faith and Phillip are 7mos now wow time fly. Jay and I still aren't were we show be I would say romantically but some how its getting better little bit any how. He found 5 Min's last week to take me to lunch it was a very fast eating time but he did try. You know I seen a friend of mine wrote in her blog she had feel out of love with her husband but lately she feel back in love too. I don't feel so bad to say that this same thing has happened to me as well is it after being married so long 7 yrs you forget to say thanks, and hey you look great today, sitting a crossed the room then turn to look or is it a need that makes you want to look to see if made there needing to see you too? as we are married longer do we forget that we like to be flirted with and cuddle and those things that made us fall in love in the first place. I remember it took work and lots of kissing and little things to get us to the point of marriage wasn't a over night I'm in love with you. But then kids came and my attention went to them & or home. And yours went to still wanting to be one of the "guys" and work. So we have lost what once was so inportant to the both of us to make sure we did and in this fell out of love. Now is the time to Fall back in love but how to make the other person see this is inportant for them to do too. It cant be all one sided cause that wont get us anywere we need to be.